I'd like to thank the academy.

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First things first, THANK YOU to all 37 of you who voted for the new 'do! Here's how it turned out, please disregard the thoroughly displeased expression on my face. It was at the camera, not my hair!

Next, THANK YOU to all my friends who came to dinner for my birthday last night (my real birthday isn't until Monday, in case you were wondering)! I was expecting a double date with Brent and Kelly, and 15 people ended up showing. Thanks for making me feel special! Also, Jaime and Mandee, thank you for these! which I CAN NOT wait to get my nose into.

Mel, Me, Jaime, Mand (The FAB FOUR).

And finally on the THANK YOU note, to my co-workers who have spoiled me with all kinds of things this week, you are the best! Thanks for making my birthday special!


Moving right along, yesterday, thanks to the lovely folks at Brand About Town, I got a pair of jeans, shoes, two tops and a skirt for $100. Yeah. Believe it. None of these items were on sale, but using the pass for FREE JEANS! and the 25% off coupon I got a BlogHer, I was able to stock up on some of the REALLY cute stuff GAP has right now. By the way, I'm shamelessly trying to get Brand About Town to make me a brand enthusiast, can you tell?

This is our last "free" weekend until basically the end of August, so we're trying to sneak in some relaxation. I'll let you know how that goes.

What are your plans? And thanks again for all the hair help! You guys are awesome! Loves!

A flower and an alien.

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The last three books I've read have had NOT ONE THING to do with one another. But hey, variety is the spice of life, right? Here goes...

The Host
by Stephenie Meyer.
I read The Host, by Twilight author Meyer, over the 4th of July when I was at the lake with my family. They complained for 48 hours about the fact that I would not take my face out of it and interact with them, if that says anything for the book.

The story is not so different from that of Twilight, a tale of a "monster" who doesn't really want to be a monster, and because of their willingness to love those who are human, is able to bridge the gap of differences. Edward anyone?

The premise is quite different however, "souls" instead of vampires, a female monster instead of Edward, and instead of humans being the dominant race, the souls have taken over the earth. The monsters rule. However, there is less of a clearly defined good vs. evil in The Host because the souls have supposedly perfected the flaws of human life. They do not kill, lie, steal, get angry, or anything negative. At least the majority don't. This makes it harder to take sides with the humans, and Meyer does a good job drawing the reader into the internal conflict.

The greatest element Meyer does carry over from the Twilight series is the impossible romance theme. Wanderer, the main character is a "soul." Humans hate souls. Souls hate humans. She falls in love with a human, etc. etc. I'm not going to give you a bunch of plot summary because it really is worth a read!

Grade: A

The Crowning Glory of Calla Lily Ponder
by Rebecca Wells.
I grew up on The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood, Wells first novel (I think...). My high school friends and I imitated the relationships, hairstyles and nail polish of the four friends in the novel. I've never had a sister, and I have always longed for the type of relationships chronicled in that book.

I've read the prequel to the Ya-Ya's, Little Altars Everywhere, and the sequel, Ya-Ya's in Bloom. I had high expectations for Calla Lily. And I was not disappointed.

Though Wells writes with a choppier style, which makes the book more difficult to be drawn into right away, once you bond with the main character, Calla Lily herself, you find yourself immediately attached.

Similar to the Ya-Ya books, the story is set in Louisiana. She uses a lot of the terms from the other books, "alligator tears," "the moon lady" and captures the same essence of the small-town south portrayed in the other books, but reading the others isn't necessary by any means.

Calla Lily is easy to love. She cares deeply for those around her, doesn't make bad decisions, doesn't judge others and has a willingness to go where the "moon lady" takes her. Through it all she is true to herself and the reader finds that her victories become her own. And in case you don't follow me on Twitter, I burst into tears on the plane home from Chicago reading this book, if that tells you anything.

Grade: B+

Style A to Zoe
by Rachel Zoe with Rose Apodaca.
I just got this book from my co-worker J for my birthday and though I have only done a skim through the pages and photos, I CAN NOT WAIT to read it! Rachel Zoe dresses many of my fashion icons and is pretty darn adorable herself.

I'll keep you posted on this one...

What have you been reading loves?

My hair needs YOUR help!

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I am getting my hair cut Thursday. I need HELP. This is a life or death situation. No, really.:)

I had basically the same style (LONG) for the last three years-ish of college. For basketball, it was much easier to have it long and put up-able. I love it long. It makes me feel taller, thinner and more confident. Weird huh? I also never do anything to it because it takes five million years to flat iron/curl it. It spends most of it's time in a braid.

After our wedding, I cut it to shoulder length. I liked it okay. Then in February when I started my new job, I cut it to the bottom of my neck. After about a month of grow out, I started to really like it and have LOVED it ever since. My stylist did a really great job with the layers and it really has framed my face well. AND Taylor really likes it on the short side.

At this point, almost six months after the original cut, it has grown out. The layers aren't falling like they are supposed to, the ends are a little crunchy and thick and it won't fit into the cute little "short hair bun" it used to. I NEED to make a decision.

The above photos are examples of my hair at it's longest, and the cut I've had the last six months or so. What do you like better? Here are the new options I am considering:

If I go short:
#1- A longer, angled bob like Gwyneth Paltrow.
#2- A more layered cut like Heidi Klum.

If I find a happy medium:
#3- A shoulder length layered cut like Julianne Moore.

If I decide to grow my hair out:
#4- Long layers like Jennifer Aniston.
Please cast your votes below!
Love you all!

Things I learned at Blogher 2009...

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I have been talking about BlogHer for many many moons now, and this last weekend, it finally happened! I headed to Chicago Thursday at the butt crack of dawn and got in about one. Rhi and I took a cab to the hotel and the fun began there.

So, in order to sum up my BlogHer experience I will share with you a few things I learned.

1. I burn easy. Though I tried to make it cool by calling it a "BlogHer Burn," it hurt like a mother.

Friday, at the Ragu lunch, I happened to stand next to a spotlight on the floor for about .25 seconds. The result was the above photo. A second degree burn which now has some snazzy purple bubbles and has made my entire right leg ache. Dear BlogHer, please move all SCALDING hot lights off the floor next year in NYC. Mmmkay thanks.

2. I am obnoxiously shy. Despite the opportunity to meet pretty much my entire blogroll during the Conference, I am not sure I did much more than smile and blush at them. So sorry about that all. I really enjoyed meeting you even if you couldn't tell!

3. I do not care who reads my blog. Not to say that I don't love those of you that do, because I LOVE YOU. And I'm not trying to be all judgemental-y, but honestly I just wasn't into running around the Sheraton handing out my little green (homemade!) Moo cards. Although I was slightly proud of them.

I really enjoy reading the people on my blogroll and in my Google reader and I love the fact that I have made some really great friends on the Internet. But I did not go to Chicago to promote myself, my blog or anything else "me" related. I do not think I am that brilliant, original or witty. I blog because I like it. 'Nuff said.

4. FREE, pink, HD Kodak video cameras are pretty great. Of all the awesome little samples, coupons and USB drives (because GOOD LORD I got like 7!), the camera was by! far! my favorite swag.

5. Chicago is freaking gorgeous. The city, the Navy Pier (to which I journeyed with Kerri and Sizzle) and the beautiful greenish river that flows right on through.

6. Marshmallow beds are good for snuggling Rhiannons, but not for sleeping so much.

7. Live tweeting your dinner is hilarious.
While at a FANTASTIC Italian dinner with my lovelies, Sizzle had a baby, I became a nun, Carrisa stole Kerri's identity, Rhi decided to sell all her possessions and move to Yemen and Kerri got her braces removed, all for the sake of #blogher09. So perhaps no one even noticed besides us, but it was quite entertaining at the time. Cheers!

8. I am grateful. I am grateful for this place to share my thoughts, that people read them, comment and at least feign interest in my life:). I am grateful for the friends I have made here. I am grateful for Rhi showing me all that is the Internet world and for her patience as I acted as her shadow for three days in Chicago. I am grateful to the people who helped me get to Chicago. And I am grateful for the experience.

I could say so much more, but instead I'll let the photos speak for themselves.

Ali, Me, Rhi.

Me.

Kerri, Rhi, Me, Sizzle.

Me, Kerr, Whoorl.

Birthday List...

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In case you didn't know, I am currently in Chicago at a BLOGGING conference, BlogHer to be exact. Yes, pretty much the coolest thing ever. Just seeing like 1,500 other women with a phone glued to their hand and overhearing conversations about Twitter and other bloggers is pretty incredible. 

Though I am shy to a fault and also a little disgusted by the people who run across the room and tackle their favorite bloggers, I did come wanting to meet the people I've been reading for the last year. 

And as of last night I have met all but one. Kind of cool. And guess what? They're all as gorgeous and funny in person (not shocking) as they are online. I also had a ridiculously good time hanging out the room last night with Rhi and Carissa.:)

BUT it is not time for a BlogHer review post quite yet, so let's change gears a little.

My birthday is in but a few short days. My twenty-third birthday. August 3rd to be exact. I'm not sure why, but 23 sounds kind of old. Kind of like I need to have my life figured out. Kind of like I'm a grown up now. YIKES.

At any rate, I thought I'd share this year's birthday list with you just in case you were wondering what I'm pining for, or in case you want to buy me things.:) Just kidding. Sort of.

1. A sewing machine.
2. Gossip Girl Season One.
3. Gilmore Girls Season One.
4. My French Life.
5.
Sookie Stackhouse Books. 
6. Purse shopping with my Mom. 

I usually buy a new purse every six months to a year and don't really switch too often. I'm not quite organized enough to remember to transfer stuff over all the time. All this to say IT IS TIME.

August is a great time to have a birthday. Far away from other holidays, this month allows for maximum present acquisition. If you're into that kind of thing.

Better get back to BlogHer, gotta gear up for a trip to H&M later today (praise Jesus!).

A little trip to Chicago.

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Friends, tomorrow morning at THE CRACK of DAWN, long before the hours I consider myself fully functional, I will be flying to Chicago! For what you ask? Only the greatest conference invented by womankind. BlogHer!

I'm almost completely packed. I've tried on all my outfits. I've got my camera, laptop, iPod charged. My bank account is prepped for a serious H&M trip and I've printed my boarding pass! Chicago here I come!

In Chicago, I'll be meeting people whose blogs I've been reading for over a year! I'll get to room with Carissa, Darcey and Rhi, who I haven't see near enough of since February.

Stay tuned for an update! Ciao!

Being content where you are at.

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I've been thinking a lot lately about what it means to be content. I am a planner. I look ahead. I try to anticipate what's to come. I look forward. We've been looking for a house. So, naturally my mind is focused on what kind of house, and how to decorate it.

We thought we had found one. I am a visual person. I was already mentally moved in. They say you aren't supposed to do this, but you have to be able to visualize yourself and your stuff there, right? Well I did, and I was sorely disappointed when it did not work out.

I found myself looking around our apartment with disdain, suddenly feeling it was too small, too dark and too boring. So, in order to temporarily squash my dissatisfaction, I decided to add a few small details to liven things up. And I noticed yesterday that wishcake has been up to the same thing!

New red pillows (Target):

Candles a'top the (right) bookshelf (Target):

New hooks and towels in the guest bath (World Market):

New curtains and candles in our bedroom (Target):
I also tried to go around the apartment and focus on the little details that I really enjoy about our place. Things that just make me happy looking at them. By noticing these things I found myself feeling more positive about where we are now and even shying away from leaving our comfy little home any time soon. Although if the right place came along...

The fact that we own ALL the Friends and almost all the Gilmore Girls seasons makes me quite happy.

I love the color of this candle holder and how it looks on the red side-table.

I love this HOME sign we got for our wedding, don't mind the dust...

I love the boy that lives in my house with me!

I love our fridge with all our friends' engagement photos on it.

I love my closet.

I love my desk to which I've recently added magazine racks, craft boxes, style books and more.

I love my fashion/home idea boards.

I LOVE our new wedding photo book. It turned out SO great!

I love this photo in the guest bath of me and my friends in Europe.

I love this bed.

Time for a change.

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Hello world. For the last year, you've read along as I documented T and I's journey to the altar, our wedding details, newlywed life and many other life events. TAYLOR loves KALEIGHA has served us well through the first year of our marriage and serves as a great source for keeping friends and family up to date on our lives. However, as I've gotten deeper into this whole "online community" thing, I've had a desire to really make the blog mine.

I posted a poll on TlovesK for the last week or so asking what people would most like to hear about. Most of the responses were for "Newlywed Life." This was a bit of a trick you see, because that result was what I suspected and one of the reasons I've been thinking of making a change. I don't want to write about Newlywed Life. It's been about nine months since we've been married and there are only so many "firsts" you can write about. And that stuff is kind of private anyway. It's just not my thing. I want to be free to write about the things that interest, inspire and motivate ME. Things that I am pondering, questioning, thinking about. Things that I love, observe, drive me crazy. Selfish? Maybe, but you don't have to come along if you don't want to.

T doesn't have a ton of time or interest in the blogging world, so he's not worried about the switch. Just in case you were worried about his feelings.:) If he suddenly does develop an interest, he can start his own blog. He's really quite brilliant, so if he does, you'll be the first to know. You can also follow him on twitter.

I also debated making this change right before BlogHer, but there's no time like the present, eh?

TlovesK isn't going anywhere. It will still be up, but I haven't decided if I'll keep posting there.

Please join me at krameymartin for a whole new journey!

About Me.

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I must get this out of the way. I hate writing bios.

That being said, here goes.

I am a twenty-three year old, red-headed Oregonian. My favorite place in the world is Priest Lake, with Paris coming in as a close second.

I get to be creative for a living and I spend most of my time trying to figure out how to stop my brain from going 100 miles per hour. Especially when I'm trying to sleep.

I do not really believe in love at first sight, but it happened to me. I am happily married to the man of my dreams.

I love books. I was a Writing/Literature major in college and I currently own three large bookshelves worth of books. Someday I'll even have a sliding ladder on those shelves, mark my words.

I love clothes. I subscribe to four fashion magazines and my closet is organized by color, item and alphabetically by brand name.

I want to be a fashion designer, interior designer, stylist, fashion magazine editor and boutique owner, when I grow up.
 

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